Match Making , Kundli Milan And Horoscope Matching
Horoscope Matching or Kundli Milan, as it is called in India is a novel and unequalled method of ascertaining compatibility of a man and a woman and to see if they are suitable for each other to be tied in matrimony. Match making is done to ensure a harmonious, well balanced and successful married relationship. It is this reason why Indian marriages were so long lasting and successful over the years. In recent past, the percentage of successful marriage relationships had fallen significantly. This was because of the growth of love marriages
in which the mutual compatibility & gun milan was often ignored.
But in the 21st Century the trend of Match making has gained importance once again. The problems in married life caused due to ego clash and lack of understandings have led the masses to accept the importance of match making. Over here, it is also important to mention that Match Making and gun milan is not only important in arranged marriages but also in love marriage.
Let us explain how Match Making or Kundali Milan works. Kundli Milan is a Vedic assessment that comprises of 8 areas or tests where the amity between two people is checked and tested through their natal charts. Each of the eight points or "tests" possesses a score. The score or the number obtained in each of the test in Kundli Milan is distinct. However the whole test comprising of 8 points can produce a maximum score of 36 points. The minimum score is 16 which determine the match is a decent one but generally a score below 18 is not considered a good match.
MatchMaking for marriage purposes is not an easy goal. It has to be scientifically done by studying the horoscopes of both the boy and the girl. Most of the astrologers only see how many 'Gunas' match between them and on that basis they either recommend or reject the proposal. The astrologers refer to a permanent table maintained for match making that enables them to decide whether the matrimony is suitable or not. However this is not the only way of ascertaining the pros and cons of marriage between two people.
Dr Jain and his team have matched over 30,000 horoscopes over last 40 years on scientific basis and all have resulted in a happy married life. In Dr. Jain's own words "I have seen several horoscopes where divorce took place irrespective of high gun milan score. The fact is that the above base does not guarantee the success of the marriage. In my practical experience, to illustrate an example, I rejected the match where 28 gunas matched and recommended the match on the basic of 15 'gunas'. The girl is married happily for the last 22 years and her husband who was in employment those days became an Industrialist.
The girl whose match had 28 'gunas' was divorced. So the traditional method of Matchmaking or Kundali Milan by pandits or so called astrologer does not guarantee a happy married life."
Traditionally, Match Matching only referred to Gun Milan and Manglik dosha. Manglik Dosha generally affects the marital life. In a Vedic horoscope, Manglik dosh or Kuja dosha is formed when mars is placed in either ascendant(First House), House of happiness or mental peace(Fourth house), House of marriage(Seventh House), House of longevity(Eighth House) or house of expenditure(Twelfth House). There are only 12 houses in a Horoscope and placement of Mars in 5 of these houses makes one a Manglik. This in turn means that almost 42% of the population is likely to be Mangliks.
Manglik dosha formed by Mars can cause following things:
Excessive delay in getting married
Difficulties in marital life
Disputes and quarrels in marital life
Mismatch in thoughts
Death of spouse
Just being Manglik will not give all these bad effects and even the intensity will differ from person to person. So we would advise that such judgment is left to the experts and you do not fall prey to any conclusions without verifying the same.
According to Astrology, horoscope matching is much more than just gun Milan and Manglik Dosha. In our opinion there are five major aspects, which are relevant, when it comes to matching of two horoscopes for the purpose of marriage.
Mental Compatibility: This is an important part in which we analyze the mental makeup of the boy as well as of the girl, their behaviors, their temper, their willingness to promote their married life, their interests and aptitude, their affection for each other etc.
Physical compatibility: Marriage cannot survive if there is no physical attraction between the couple. The desire to want each other is very important for a successful marriage. It’s said, “You forget everything in the world when you are in each other’s arms.”
Nature Match: The horoscope of the boy and also of the girl is analyzed for their nature attributes. Two short tempered people would not make a great pair but if combine the short tempered person with the person of patience, compatibility and understanding would be better.
Separative Tendencies: The horoscope should be analyzed for any kind of separatist elements presents in the horoscope and also for any sign of divorce.
Financial security/Family adjustment: It is a very important question in the mind of a girl and her family, that will the guy give her the financial security? Similarly the man generally has one apprehension, that will she love and respect my family in the manner I do. Will she adjust in my family? Such questions will be answered in this report.
We have to match the Moon and Sun. The lord of both ascendants of girl & boy should be properly placed and should not be enemies. Similarly Lord of Seventh House i.e. the house of marriage should be friends and properly placed from each other. Furthermore, the planets governing physical attraction for each other should also be studied for Gun Milan or Kundli Milan.
So, both mental and physical attraction should be studied for happy married life. In my study and deep research I came across several horoscopes which showed separation or divorce from the spouse. Nowhere in any text has book had any remedied as how to overcome this anomaly has been mentioned. I propounded a new theory how to check this evil and ensure marital happiness. The base of any marriage is conjugal relationship. This relationship or this bond is broken through divorce or separation.
I started advising the parents of the girls that they should search a boy who goes regularly on tours due to service or business condition or should be in sales or marketing line so that absence of conjugal relationship this way shall stop separation or divorce as the negative side. It will rather ensure happiness on the positive side.
The person returning from tour will find enthusiastic response from the spouse. This has proved true in all cases where separation from spouse was indicated in the horoscope before marriage, and the way I suggested ensured happy married life.
Are you and your soul mate compatible? This instant Match Making report compares your birth chart with that of your partner's and gives the inherent compatibility match traits. Go ahead and get yours and your partner's Kundali Milan/Match Making done to ensure a happy married life.
Horoscope Matching or Gun Milan, as it is called in India is a novel and unequalled method of ascertaining compatibility of a man and a woman and to see if they are suitable for each other to be tied in matrimony.
Let us explain how Horoscope Making or Gun Milan works. Gun Milan is a Vedic assessment that comprises of 8 areas or tests where the amity between two people is checked and tested through their natal charts.Each of the eight points or "tests" possesses a score.The score or the number obtained in each of the test is distinct.However the whole test comprising of 8 points can produce a maximum score of 36 points.The minimum score is 16 which determines the match is a decent one but generally a score below 18 is not considered a good match.